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“Most of the Time, They Are Trying to Have Control in the Relationship Because They Don’t Want to Get Hurt. It Also Means They Aren’t Available for True Intimacy Because It Can Be Too Scary for Them, ” She Says. This Kind of Behaviour Creates a Dynamic of “Push and Pull” That, in Turn, Generates a Sense of Longing and Pursuit.

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While Talking Through Their Emotions Can Potentially Improve Things, the Way You Address It Is Important, She Says. “Calmly State How You Feel, Without Assigning Blame and See How They Respond. If They Are Defensive, Get Aggressive or Discount Your Feelings in Any Way, Then It Shows That They Are Not Open to Honest Communication.

Opinion | Communication, Self Worth Are Key When Your Partner Blows Hot and Cold All the Time

By Marcus Vance

• Oct 8, 2026 • 5 min read

Opinion | Communication, Self Worth Are Key When Your Partner Blows Hot and Cold All the Time

Direct Answer • Key Takeaway

However, If They Are Playing Hide and Seek Just to Make You Try Harder, You Should Resist the Temptation to Chase. Instead, You Need to Do the Opposite and Keep a Distance.

Marcus Vance

Cybersecurity & Digital Privacy Researcher

Marcus Vance is a cybersecurity auditor and technology writer dedicated to educating the public about online safety, data privacy regulations, enterprise security, and emerging cyber threats.

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